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What kind of guys get the most enjoyment from this?
narcissistic men, players....nothing is more satisfying to a borderline than ruining a player it's the ultimate victory.
And with the amount of guys who date women online here, a lot of you probably are.
5% may seem like a small number, but these women also have a lot more partners then regular women so keep that in mind. One of the most emotionally taxing and confusing experiences of my life.
Let's say you are banging one and she's hot and you are aware of her mental illness.
I would still not advise sleeping with one because very few men are mentally tough enough to do so with a BPD.
These women literally are like a drug.make you feel like you can work at some **** hole like burger king the rest of your life but everything will still be ok as long as you have each other.
The scary part is if they're high functioning borderlines (like I'm assuming yours was) is that they actually have the ability to appear rational and quite normal at times so if they do contact you after the breakup (and they always do guys) you may find yourself getting reeled back in before you know it, hell I questioned my own sanity at that point. i honestly dont know, out of all the girls i ever dated only one was able to legitimately make me feel worthless.
Like we were just old pals and I had never been wronged in any way. the only guys likely to stick around long enough for them to suck the life out of is a narcissistic dude who won't take any ****. I entered the relationship a confident guy and left the relationship a shell of a man that I was.
I can honestly say though that after the breakup I was just emotional drained, confused, and doubted myself for the first time in my life. I truly believe these women sub consciously seek out guys like us. She put me on this crazy pedestal and acted like I was this super catch to everyone but was cold as hell behind my back. Used to go on these "breaks" and then string me along until she was "ready." I was a kid so I didn't know any better. But by then I had grown up a bit and told her tough luck. I still bump into people that knew us in high school and they tell me she was crazy and I dodged a bullet. I entered the relationship a confident guy and left the relationship a shell of a man that I was.
One of the most emotionally taxing and confusing experiences of my life.
They take lying to a new level and actually convince themselves that their feelings for you are the real deal...while still coldly doing all kinds of sketchy **** when you aren't around.
i cant say for sure she had a personality disorder or not but the signs were certainly there. any type of personality disorder where the person has literally no ability to feel any empathy or sympathy is scary though.