Old white man dating young black woman
He broke the ice immediately and said, “She’s American.” And once again, I got the line, “We thought you were Brasilian!” After watching the sunset together, he invited me to meet up with them to salsa that evening.My first time with this White kid from Jersey was intense.The sex was focused primarily on my pleasure, and he wasn’t lacking in anyway to be able to deliver it.But it did make me reflect on why I had limited myself for so long to just having sex and dating Black men or never challenging the popular stereotypes.Janice Rhoshalle Littlejohn, co-author of the soon-to-be released put it best in the chapter called, “Let’s Talk About Sex …
Did you enjoy yourself or did you want to ‘go back home’? I was looking to get away from the city, so I accepted, of course, booking my own hotel room, and arriving days late on my own schedule.We spent the following days hanging out, walking the beach, but still keeping things platonic.While I know I wasn’t the first black woman he ever had sex with, he was the first White American that I had ever let into such an intimate space.Prior to that, I had shared my body with White Brasilians and Argentineans. This made me feel like my growth had come full circle, as I struggled growing up in a predominately White Jersey suburb to feel like interracial dating was an option for a young Black woman.
First, some history: When I was a child, watching my pops get ready to go out was something to behold.